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Every Wednesday, join our community conversation over on the podcast. To keep the conversation going, on Thursday’s, you’ll find additional resources, pdf’s, short videos, and links to articles/sites mentioned in the podcast, right here on the blog. By combining the spoken + written word, you’ll find yourself becoming stronger than ever!

Unwrap the Gift of Thoughtfulness
I know for certain that we never lost the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought, and decision we make.Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by...
The Pain of Unanswered Prayers
Unrelenting disappointment leaves you heartsick, but a sudden good break can turn life around." -Proverbs 13:12 (MSG) Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life." -Proverbs 13:12 (NIV) The Pain of Unanswered Prayers Tori sat...
What does BRAVE look like?
What Does Brave Look Like? Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” ― Winston S. Churchill Volumes have been written on bravery. On courage. On perseverance. And, yet, I still find it hard to do. To move outside my...
Permission to Slouch
“When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret." -Shannon L. Alder If it's not...
Saying goodbye to college-bound kids
Letting go is going to be different than you expected and far more emotionally charged. After all, we've been so involved in our kids' lives and have been determined to give them the best. And frankly, this is a huge economic investment. So recognize your feelings and...
My love affair.
Most couples are willing to spend an hour a week talking about their relationship. I suggest that emotional attunement can take place (at a minimum) in that weekly “state of the union” meeting. That means that at least an hour a week is devoted to the relationship and...
When You Wake Up in Pain
The people who are experiencing the most pain tend to be the ones who are always trying to make everyone smile" (Kushandwizdom). When You Wake Up in Pain Some days are better than others. But today, not one of the "better ones." Not only did my darlin' 6,5" baby boy...
The Power of One Voice
“When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.” ― Shannon L. Alder ...
What do Worry and Fog Have in Common?
What do worry and fog have in common? Worry is a cycle of inefficient thoughts whirling around a center of fear. -Corrie Ten Boom I'm asking a simple question today, "What do worry and fog have in common?" [Tweet "When faith breaks through the fog of your fears."] I...
What to Expect from Be Remarkable eCourse
Unfortunately, our life may look like a formless tangle of limbs and branches than a precisely pruned tree. We struggle to determine which limbs and branches are essential and which are superfluous; which bear fruit and which merely use nourishment. With a...
What to Expect at Be Remarkable Webinar
Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.” ― Shannon L. Alder Clear as Mud Sometimes I am as clear as mud. Yep. M.U.D. Today I had a dear friend ask about...
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